Some of you may have seen our two minute introductory video that talks about how easy spiritual care is. And yes, there is a simplicity, in some ways, in two humans having a supportive relationship. All you need to do is show up and communicate. So why doesn't it happen all the time? This is where we get in to the paradox of spiritual care.
Over the next few newsletters I am going to share a few short reflections with you about my current list of spiritual care paradoxes. You may have others - feel free to send them in to me firstname.lastname@example.org.
So far I have five:
1. An expert who assumes they are there to learn
2. A professional who benefits from the relationship
3. Someone who gets 'jobs done' whilst putting relationships first
4. The person who brings hope by being present to despair
5. The one who is fully participating and saying the least
You might enjoy this story from Rabbi Bunim of P’shiskha (with thanks to Barbara Thiede) as you ponder your spiritual care paradoxes: You should always have two notes with you, he says. One in each pocket. One note says, "I am but dust and ashes". The other says, "The world was created for me." Sometimes, we should feel for the note in one pocket, at other times, the second note. The secret to life, he says, is knowing when to read which note.
In June I took some Meaningful Ageing supporters to meetings in Canberra so we could continue to raise the profile of spiritual care as integral to quality of life for older people. Pictured are CHA CEO Suzanne Greenwood, Annalisa Bowden General Manager, Roper Gulf Regional Council, myself and two Uniting residents, Rosemary Whitecross and Felicity Hargreaves (with Minister Ken Wyatt), following our discussion with the Minister and his team. We also spent time with Senator Griff's Chief of Staff (Nick Xenophon Team). We discussed the importance of meaning, purpose and connectedness for older people in this time of aged care reform, and the opportunity for a new approach to aged care workforce development. Rosemary and Felicity did a 30 second review of our meeting with the minister - you can watch it here if you missed it.
Finally, I want to acknowledge the round of painful stories that continue to emerge from aged care and retirement living contexts. It is always hard to hear about times when we have not done our very best, when we have compromised the humanity of ourselves and others, and when we have not been honorable. As we reflect on these situations, it is an opportunity for each of us to be totally honest with ourselves, our colleagues, and our managers. Are we working for the best interests of the older person? Are we honest about our mistakes? Do we respond with compassion, respect and truth? Can we be trusted with these people's lives? If the answer to all of these is yes, then pause to savour what you have. Celebrate the strength, commitment and humanity of your teams. If any of the answers are no, then take action today to turn the tide. It may take courage, but it is absolutely the right thing to do. As Maya Angelou says, you know what's right. Just do right.
Until next time,
- Ilsa Hampton
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